Unlock Your Dream Job: Stop Applying, Start From Zero and Build Your Own Path!

In today’s job market, traditional paths to employment can feel crowded and overwhelming. Everyone seems to be rewriting their resumes and hitting that easy apply button on LinkedIn. But what if there’s a better way? This article explores how to carve your own path and create opportunities that truly reflect your skills and passions.

Key Takeaways

  • Create Your Own Opportunities: Don’t just follow the crowd; find unique ways to stand out.
  • Use Creative Approaches: Think outside the box with your applications.
  • Showcase Your Skills: Use personal projects to demonstrate what you can do.
  • Be Proactive: Take initiative in your job search.

The Problem With Traditional Job Applications

Let’s face it: applying for jobs the usual way is tough. Everyone’s doing it. You send out resumes, fill out applications, and hope for the best. But what happens? You often get lost in the shuffle. Companies receive hundreds of applications for a single position. It’s easy to feel like just another name on a list.

Make Your Own Door

Instead of waiting for someone to open a door for you, make your own door. This means creating opportunities that showcase your skills and interests. Here’s how:

  1. Start a Blog or Website: Share your thoughts, experiences, and expertise. This can help you build a personal brand.
  2. Buy a Domain: If there’s a specific company you want to work for, consider buying a domain like xyzcompanyhireme.com. Use it to host your resume and a personal message.
  3. Create a Video: Film a short video explaining why you want to work for a specific company and what you can bring to the table.
  4. Design a Presentation: When I wanted to work at Buddy Media, I created a PowerPoint deck outlining my vision for my first three months. It showed initiative and creativity.

Stand Out With Personal Projects

Employers love to see what you can do beyond a resume. Personal projects can be a great way to demonstrate your skills. Here are some ideas:

  • Build a Portfolio: Showcase your work, whether it’s writing, design, or coding.
  • Volunteer: Offer your skills to non-profits or local businesses. This not only helps others but also builds your experience.
  • Network Creatively: Attend events, join online communities, and connect with people in your desired field. Don’t just ask for jobs; ask for advice and insights.

Be Proactive in Your Job Search

Don’t wait for opportunities to come to you. Take charge of your job search. Here’s how:

  • Research Companies: Find out what companies align with your values and interests. Tailor your approach to each one.
  • Follow Up: After applying or networking, send a follow-up email. It shows you’re serious and keeps you on their radar.
  • Stay Positive: Job searching can be tough. Keep a positive mindset and remember that every rejection is a step closer to the right opportunity.

Conclusion

In a crowded job market, it’s essential to stand out. By making your own door, you can create opportunities that align with your passions and skills. Don’t just apply for jobs—create your own path. Whether it’s through a blog, a personal project, or a unique application, take the initiative and show the world what you can do. Your dream job is out there; go find it!

Who’s the Coach?

I’m Chris Dessi.

Tech entrepreneur. Author. Talking head.
But before any of that—I’m a builder.

I’ve spent the last 20+ years helping companies grow:
From dot-com chaos to SaaS scale-ups to AI-powered everything.
I’ve sold software across continents. Closed $32M in deals using AI.
Built and exited businesses. Bombed a few too. All of it made me sharper.

Today, I run Torque AI, a marketing automation platform built for the 99%.
Small business owners. Solopreneurs. Operators with too much to do and not enough support.
We give them AI superpowers—without the hype, the jargon, or the BS.

I’m also the founder of AI Summit NYC, where real business owners come to learn how to actually use AI to drive revenue.

When I’m not building, I’m writing books, speaking on national TV, and coaching execs through reinvention—with a baseball bat in one hand and a meditation app in the other.

I believe reinvention is our greatest asset.
I believe AI isn’t the threat—it’s the test.
And I believe if you’re not adapting, you’re eroding.

Let’s build something that matters.

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