Job Loss to Gym Gain: My Mental Health Journey

Last June, I faced a tough moment when I lost my job at a startup after three years of hard work. Like many, I was worried about finances and my mortgage. In the chaos of job hunting, I neglected my gym routine, not realizing how much I needed it for my mental health. This post dives into my journey back to fitness and the lessons learned along the way.

Key Takeaways

  • Job loss can impact mental health significantly.
  • Regular exercise provides essential mental benefits.
  • Social connections at the gym are vital for well-being.
  • Small steps can lead to big changes in life.

The Job Loss Experience

Losing a job is never easy. I was one of several executives let go from a startup. It hit hard. I was suddenly faced with uncertainty about my future and how to pay my bills. My focus shifted entirely to finding new work. I was working long hours, trying to secure consulting gigs, and stressing about money.

During this time, I stopped going to the gym. I thought, "I need to prioritize income over everything else." But in reality, I was missing out on something crucial.

The Impact of Neglecting Fitness

For about a month, I didn’t work out. I didn’t realize how much I relied on the gym for my mental health. Here’s what I missed:

  • Endorphins: Those feel-good hormones that come from exercise.
  • Social Interaction: Being around others who motivate and support you.
  • Routine: The structure that working out provides in daily life.

Without these, I felt a shift in my mood. I was probably a bit depressed, but I didn’t see it at the time. I was too focused on getting back on my feet financially.

The Return to the Gym

Eventually, I decided to return to the gym. It was a small step, but it made a huge difference. Here’s what I experienced:

  1. Immediate Boost: Just getting back into the routine lifted my spirits.
  2. Community Support: I reconnected with friends and fellow gym-goers who encouraged me.
  3. Physical Benefits: I started feeling stronger and healthier, which helped my mindset.

I realized how much I had taken the gym for granted. The laughter, the sweat, the shared struggles—it all contributed to my well-being.

Lessons Learned

Going through this experience taught me a lot about the importance of balance. Here are some key lessons:

  • Prioritize Mental Health: It’s just as important as financial stability.
  • Small Steps Matter: Even a little exercise can lead to big changes.
  • Stay Connected: Don’t isolate yourself; lean on your support network.

Conclusion

Losing my job was tough, but it led me to rediscover the importance of fitness in my life. I learned that taking care of my mental health is just as crucial as finding a new job. Now, I’m committed to keeping the gym a part of my routine, no matter what life throws my way. Remember, it’s those little baby steps that can lead to significant changes. Don’t underestimate the power of a good workout and a supportive community!

Who’s the Coach?

I’m Chris Dessi.

Tech entrepreneur. Author. Talking head.
But before any of that—I’m a builder.

I’ve spent the last 20+ years helping companies grow:
From dot-com chaos to SaaS scale-ups to AI-powered everything.
I’ve sold software across continents. Closed $32M in deals using AI.
Built and exited businesses. Bombed a few too. All of it made me sharper.

Today, I run Torque AI, a marketing automation platform built for the 99%.
Small business owners. Solopreneurs. Operators with too much to do and not enough support.
We give them AI superpowers—without the hype, the jargon, or the BS.

I’m also the founder of AI Summit NYC, where real business owners come to learn how to actually use AI to drive revenue.

When I’m not building, I’m writing books, speaking on national TV, and coaching execs through reinvention—with a baseball bat in one hand and a meditation app in the other.

I believe reinvention is our greatest asset.
I believe AI isn’t the threat—it’s the test.
And I believe if you’re not adapting, you’re eroding.

Let’s build something that matters.

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